Alhamdulilah!!

Finally I am back on my monthly routine to blog on what is happening in my life and what will be my future after resigning from my previous job? I guess it is time for me to share with all my lovely readers about it. First and foremost, I am so done with my current job and time for me to move on especially the fact that there were a lot of toxic people around me while I am working.To make it short, I think work politics is everywhere but this one is so toxic that I can't even put a word to it. It is just mehhhh. Something like how the young people would say.

I have been catching up with myself in terms of my health and wealth. I have put a lot of thought to make my life to be more meaningful. To put it in word, I have been avoiding gym since the COVID-19 and been doing my own exercise routine like run and jog around my house. Hence, as I am free for now, might as well do it once my new job start. 

Apart from that, I am intending to use the SkillsFuture given by the government to put it in good use- learning new language, baking and taking up short courses to upgrade myself. For those who have the $500 SkillsFuture, do make use of it and government will enhance it by giving another $500-$1000 depending on your age group in October. So I am waiting for it so as to use it to make myself occupied apart from just working and lazing at home. Oh yeah! It is only applied for those 25 years old and above. Better use it before it expired! 

As I am busy doing all that, I have been reading some investment books and watched some investment videos so as to educate myself that I need to be financial stable when I reached that age. I have not given any thought on when will I be retire or stop working but for what I know, I will be doing it as long as I take good care of my health especially mental health. I need to be sure that I am healthy to make my life keeps on going. 

There may be times, I will give up but I know myself that every obstacles that happened have its reasons to it. Allah may have everything planned for me but I can too make any change to make sure it is better than ever. Amin.

Time don't wait for me so as my age. Yes I am still in my 20s but I need to ensure once I hit 30s, my life will change and there is no way to turn it around unless you have made an impact to your life that you would want to keep on going with it. 

I have met some of my friend who are going to be in the 30s, I see that they are carefree and single, they told me that in this age, they would rather stay as it is as no time to waste on redundant things such as finding a partner or keep on pleasing people around you. Yes! I have to agree on that especially when you are doing what you need to do, don't be bother with the negativity around you. I am glad that I am able to overcome this.

Time will tell by how my future will be like. I want my life to be better than previously and end this 2020 with a positive mind even this year is pretty down for me and most of the people around me but it won't hinder myself to be stagnant and not pushing myself out of the comfort zone. Boy, it may be hard but with willpower and determination, I can make a difference in myself and my family. I want the best for myself and my family to be honest. I know that I came from a humble background and quite traditional but I have made an impact that being traditional have its pros and cons to it. Making use of it make somewhat change it to a better view maybe? 

I am fortunate to have my parents who always supporting me even though the one who made a lot of noise will be my dad. I won't deny that he want the best for me especially now, I am currently unemployed. What the future hold for me, I am the master to it. I always pray the best for me and my family to be successful in whatever that they are doing.

No more dating or finding any special one in particular right now. I am focusing on myself currently till I am stable in terms of my finances or everything that I will need to change before planning to have one in the future. Yes, I know it may sound self-centered but I am sure that I have given a deep deep thought to it and discussing with my parents about it, given the fact I have doing it since I turned 21. They have already given a green light that I can do anything I want but to be sure to find someone in the future to take care of me and to be loved as they are not getting younger and want the best for me. 

I know my parents have their own set of mind but I guess they adhered to it because I gave them my full support to take care of themselves in the future and whatever happens, I will be there for them. I still have my brother and sister who can give them what they want to so my parents are lucky to have a lot of options. No rush to that especially you are not that ready right. So time will see how my relationship will be like. Will I have a partner when I am in my 30s or 40s? Only me will know it.

I have nothing much to talk about them. They are totally fine and healthy as it is. I thanked Allah for all of  them to be in great health. I have to mention that all my siblings is finally in their 20s and have their own set of life goals in life. I will share about it once something new come out. I am hoping that my family is always my main priority in my life.

Now that there is 5 months before 2021, I am guessing that 2020 will be remembered as one of the toughest year for me and my family especially the COVID-19 situation, no more of usual chilling out session and vacation too. I hope that these few months will recuperate and see everything will be normal or I would say a new normal with extra precaution. Once again, health is wealth. I need to take care of myself and my family. 

You too, my lovely readers should do the same. I will be updating my blog on my monthly basis and pardon me for the last post-suppose to do it in July. I was preoccupied with my current plan and a lot of things on my mind till I forget but here you go, my monthly life that I shared to all my lovely readers. Wish me all the best!

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